Why do people get jealous?

Jealousy can’t be explained by words but if we try to understand then we can to feel it. If we want to understand the concept of jealous then we need to look into our surrounding people who love you and hate. Before thinking about jealousy first, you think about who loves you and cares for you. Create a question in your mind, why they love and care? After that, you think in opposite direction and again create a question in your mind, why people hate you? Jealousy is not germinating only in human, it also arises in others like animals and birds. so according to oxford dictionary, Jealousy is the feeling of anger, displeasure, possessiveness, insecurity, obsessive thinking, and paranoid personality. let's start understanding why jealousy germinated.

let's start one by one by examples.

• Is your child jealous of the new baby? 

When a baby come in a life, then happiness arise in the whole family. Every one of the family cares about a mother and planning new the things for new baby like baby clothes, toys, crib and many more things. But the main mistake does by family and no one cares about an old kid. And your kid observes the whole movement of the family. He does feel that his mom and dad do not love more and why it happening. He can't understand the whole things and he may irritate more and more. He does think why the baby come to our life. and start hating to a new baby.

                                   

• Really, a child jealous of another child?

Just like adults, every child can experience and act out feelings of jealousy that can often be painful for them and other family members. jealousy can't delete to your feelings it could be controlled but children can't deal with jealousy. it automatically occurs. most of the time jealousy germinated in the child when they compare to another child.

                                    

                                       

• what ! an animal jealous of another animal?

The animal does feel jealousy because animals also behave like a child. They haven't sense of humor. They feel jealous when they compare with another animal.The animal compares in terms of food. He always wants more. He does not compromise with another animal.

                                      

• Jealousy in a relationship? 

Every relationship starts with love and when two people like each other. They start cares to each other. but a third person may be in a relationship, may be a love triangle. At the root of jealousy lies fear of loss. Like many jealous partners feared a loss of their relationship, loss of self-respect, even loss of face fearing how his friends would see him if he were to be made a fool of. Fear makes for feelings of insecurity. Jealousy is the feeling of anger, displeasure, possessiveness, insecurity, obsessive thinking, and paranoid personality.

                                         

• Your Friend May Be Jealous?

Perhaps you just experienced something good in your life, you are so happy that you want to share it with your closest friends, you hope will be happy for you, the any of you count on to share in your joy. You meet your friend for coffee to share your great news and their reaction is to downplay it, and they may even seem tickled by your excitement. Their lack of shared excitement leaves you hurt and wondering what you did wrong. Of course, something which can have a destructive effect on a friendship. And it is not always out in the open but rather wrapped under layers of passive aggression and hidden hostility.

                                          

• The truth about jealousy in Business?

When you are surrounded by people who should be happy for you, but in actually, they are being heated about your success. jealousy germinate where a similarity exists. when you jumps up and cross the similarity line then other can not explain himself. jealousy may be dangerous because each one wants to achieve success. and jealousy in business because other compete with you. Everyone wants money and power. 

                                           

        Conclusion

Jealousy can't be removed from your nature but it could be overcome. If want to control your jealousy, Develop your self-confidence. You will start feeling better about who you are. You will be much less likely to be jealous. Convert jealousy into positive competition in your mind. 

You must try some things like-

• Understand Your Jealousy
• Reflect on your jealousy
• Improve Your Situation
• Improve what you do
• Improve your relationships
• Be a more generous person
• Live a Positive Life